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My Love....
Is not Your Love.
Do you speak love?
So it started a with conversation
That turned into a thought process
Which turned into a tweet, then became two tweets
Then into a whole thread, which I decided to share here.
Miscommunication in a relationship happens when someone expects you to express your love
The same way they express theirs. This is an assumption that can lead to us misinterpreting
The other persons intentions, motives, or even genuinely how they feel about things.
I think it is important to first of all disregard all the standard generic gestures of
love-like roses and all that shit (to be honest most of that is just running game) and really
learn to interpret a person's language in love!
Sometimes someone remembering you have a full week schedule and topping up your oyster
In advance is love. Sometimes a person remembering you have a job interview the next morning
And calling you the next day to make sure you woke up on time for it, is love.
Basically love is not spoken in one language. It is bilingual, trilingual and multilingual!
You have to really learn to stop expecting love to be communicated in the way you are most familiar for it to
Be acceptable, or your relationships will just breakdown.I often find this to be the case
when it came to parental relationships with their children!
Loving is just as much about listening, as it is about giving!
However not just listening on a physical level
but on an emotional, mental and spiritual level too..
I think!

OOH!! LOVE

BAIDOO NANA LARTEY,
ACCRA, GHANA.
baidoolartey@gmail.com.

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